Ralph Friedgen Speaks
If you are squeamish like me, you may want to skip this post. Late Sunday night a car hit a deer in front of my house. The deer suffered a fatal injury yet still managed to gallop (or fly) 30 yards up my driveway before finding its final resting place. As luck would have it, we had to leave very early Monday to take our son to the Dr. Office two hours away in Philly. Following a suggestion from a friend, we called Department of Natural Resources to see if they could do anything with it while we are gone and though DNR was sympathetic, they’re ultimate response was “Sucks to be you”.
So there I was as the sun was setting Monday evening with a rope and my lawn tractor. After sitting out all day the vultures had pretty much had their way with the poor thing. Eyes were gone, stomach ripped open, and of course the obviously unhealed car damage. As I tied the rope around its neck and front legs to drag it to a more respectable resting place way back in the woods, I did about all I could to not throw up.
But you know what, that was nothing, what I’m about to write now sickens me even more than that.
It may not be breaking news anymore but earlier this week Ralph Friedgen, yes OUR Ralph Friedgen, the man who took Maryland out of our bowless depression and took us to the Orange Bowl said that he burned his Maryland diploma. And to add insult to injury he now says he is flying a Georgia Tech flag, and though he is interested in how the kids are doing, he isn’t so interested in the University of Maryland.
I can’t say that I blame him. Whatever happens in this new regime, the way things ended with Friedgen was pretty amateurish. And for someone who turned our program from a perennial loser into a contender, and is pretty much responsible for every positive Maryland Football memory I have, this is inexcusable. Maybe that isn’t even the word. Maybe sad is a better choice.
Coaches do come and go, and transitions are never easy, even when they are designed to be (right WVU?). But boy do these quotes just open some old wounds from last winter. Part of me wants to say “Screw him, if he isn’t’ with us, who needs him”. But another part of me is crushed that the current administration not only fired the 2010 ACC Coach of the Year, but did it in a way that makes him want to burn his diploma.
It’s like seeing someone give Santa Claus a wedgie on National TV. He deserved better.
But no, we had to hire a coach to put more people in the stands, to create buzz, to take us from “Good to Great”. Well I’ll give Kevin Anderson one thing, Monday morning everyone in my office wanted to talk Terps Football, but it wasn’t for a good reason.
I can’t not be a fan, and I can’t not care about Maryland Sports, but damn am I bummed that this past year hasn’t worked out better. Granted it is still early, and we have to give Edsall his time, but so far the results have been mixed, and I fear are about to get worse. And I’m getting the feeling Kevin Anderson is in over his head. However, I have said it once and I have said it again, I’m perfectly happy being wrong. I just keep having this nagging feeling that maybe just this one time, I may actually be right.
Regardless it never should have come to this.




September 30th, 2011 at 4:50 pm
The more time I have to think about these quotes, it doesn’t really surprise me. Ralph always had that kind of mentality. However, he didn’t deserve to go out like that. Time will tell how this all works out, but I still think it is going to be mediocre. I think Edsall, given a chance is going to be more successful than other coaches, but he is not exactly instilling confidence in me (and most other fans) to this point. I wish I didn’t care so much. I wish I could just tune in for the three hours of the game, and leave my emotions at the door win or lose. However, I am fortunate and/or cursed to be a Maryland fan, and nothing is going to change that. Well, maybe if we return to the glory days of Vanderlinden or Duffner I may just go to tailgate. In all seriousness, we know we are not the Auburns, or LSU’s of world. We just can’t be a team that gets steam rolled by a MAC team, and that’s what hurts.
September 30th, 2011 at 8:07 pm
I agree with everything you said Bob. As far as the deer goes that sucks. That’s as gruesome as the deer that landed on my hood years ago as it was catapulted into me by another car. It literally exploded as it hit my truck. I’m glad it was almost dark and I couldn’t see everything that well.
October 2nd, 2011 at 8:08 am
I’ve been under a rock and just heard about the Fridge thing. I don’t know the full context but in response to burning the diploma and cutting ties with UMD… Ralph, grow up. People get fired all the time. At least when you got fired you had half the Terp community in tears and rooting for you. Plus a few bucks in your pocket. Great employees are terminated from their jobs everyday with far less fan fare. Stop your complaining. Most people, myself included, had your back…partly because we thought the administration got this wrong but mostly because you WERE a Terp. Your affiliation with UMD is not just about football, and definitely not about the politics or business that led to your firing. I mean, isn’t that what you preach to the kids everyday…that being a Terp is about a lot more than football? I guess you’re just emotional and you think this was a nice symbolic way of sticking it to UMD, but you should have thought about who you were really sticking it to when you decided to disassociate yourself with Terp nation.
Damn, and now I just saw Toledo smoked Temple. Great, another week of taking crap from my co-workers…
October 2nd, 2011 at 1:13 pm
Temple lost to Toledo? Ugh…. Rin I do agree with what you say as well. I can’t blame him for his comments but he should have kept them to himself. Something I too have never learned to do.
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